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Discrimination, Violence, Police Brutality

Updated: May 6

Last Monday, my dear friend Adrienne contacted me to ask me if she could write about our experience of excessive use of police force that took place in the summer of 2009 in New Orleans. She wrote me because she feels that our story is relevant to the current climate in the States, and she wanted to ask my permission first. She also wanted to tell me that she would not use my name if I wished not to be named.

I told her to use my name and to go ahead and tell our story of course. I have told that story before; I actually wrote about it shortly after it happened, but I do not know where I have put the original text, so I chose to write about it a second time on this platform. It is absolutely relevant, it was back then, and sadly it is still now as the situation seems to get worse rather than better.

This is the text that Adrienne wrote and posted:

“I was in New Orleans with my dear friend, Raphaëlle, to celebrate my birthday. Raphaëlle is a petite yoga instructor of mixed racial background (she's black). We were leaving a club on Bourbon Street with the intention of heading back to our hotel room. It was late, and I’d had a bit too much to drink, so I headed outside first to get some fresh air and wait for Raphaëlle to settle her tab inside. An officer was trying to clear the pavement outside the club a few yards away. I was standing in the street as Raphaëlle exited the club to meet me. She stopped on the edge of the pavement in front of me. The officer quickly approached Raphaëlle from behind, stating, “I told you to get off the pavement,” though she’d literally just walked out of the bar. Before she could even turn to see who was yelling at her, he grabbed her by the back of the neck and slammed her, face first, onto the cement pavement. Then he kneeled on her back, pressing all 6’2, 250 pounds of his weight onto her petite frame.  She was wearing a black dress which rode up over her thighs and ripped down to expose her breasts with the officer’s assault.  She was humiliated and crying for help.  My temper flared, and I began to yell at the officer. I knew I could not touch the officer, so instead I stood over him and I shouted that he should be fired and that I would be contacting my attorney. I was arrested for my angry outburst and refusal to leave. Still, I could not help but notice that my treatment was significantly different from my friend’s. While I was not touched during my angry tirade, while I was treated gently and politely when I finally was arrested, Raphaëlle’s face was bloodied and swollen; her shoulder was fractured. Her black dress was ruined. I still question the officer’s motivations and the level of force he employed."

Two officers came to the scene and the officer in question disappeared. I was taken to a nearby hotel by one of the female officers, who put my dress back up and placed my cardigan over my shoulders. Adrienne and I were taken to the precinct and put in jail while awaiting our bails to be paid. It was so surreal. Overcome by emotions and flooded with adrenaline, I had not realised yet how badly I was hurt. It is only when we got to the precinct, and I was asked what had happened to me by the person who took my information and fingerprints, that I realised. I could tell that she was looking at my face in disbelief, so I asked her what she meant. When I saw myself in the mirror, the left side of my face was bruised and swollen. I ended up with nerve damage in my left hand (which healed) because of the way he had pulled both of my arms back at the same time to handcuff me. The way to handcuff someone is to guide one arm back first and then the other to avoid causing injury to the shoulders, arms or wrists. That was not how I was handcuffed.

Adrienne and I spent hours waiting to be bailed out, eventually Adrienne's bail got paid first as she had fewer charges than me and her family was also closer geographically. I was fortunate enough that my mum happened to be in NYC at the time, and she managed to get the funds to bail me out, not before I was put in an orange jumpsuit (in which I was swimming lol) and faced the possibility to be transferred to jail and spend the weekend there (from what I was told this is what happens during the weekend, the inmates get transferred to county jail I believe). The waiting was filled with anxiety about that prospect, but it was also funny as I was the only woman in the precinct jail and some of those guys were quite funny. I think I have a pretty good sense of humour and I have the ability to find some comic relief in any situation, and I am thankful for some of those guys for making me laugh – some of them unknowingly :).

I remember staring at the board, that displayed your name once your bond had been paid, so intensely and praying my mum would pay it before we were all transferred. The whole situation felt so surreal and by that point my adrenaline levels had considerably lowered, and I could feel all the pains and aches from the force the officer had used on me. It was not pretty, I hadn't eaten in hours (the bologna sandwich was definitely not something I was going to put in my body on top of everything else) and I felt exhausted, physically and emotionally. When I finally saw my name on that board I was overwhelmed with tears, I was freed...

The following Monday, Adrienne and I had to go to court to make a plea: not guilty. I am so grateful for Adrienne, I can't say it enough. I lost a little of myself for a moment, but she made sure we made the decision I knew I wanted to take but was so distraught to make. The cop did not show up in court to hear our plea (this was already a sign that something was wrong) and our charges were dropped 3 months later, just a few days before I was due to fly back to New Orleans for our trial. Whatever I lost during that experience was not lost for long. It got me to educate myself about police brutality, first in New Orleans, but also in other parts of the world, and realising that this was rampant all over America. The system is so fucked up and corrupted, but I came out of this feeling so loved and empowered.

It saddens me that we are still here, at the same place, if not worse than we were 10, 50, 100, 200 years ago. Will we ever learn?

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